Saturday, January 25, 2014

Treating Depression Naturally Should Come Naturally


Treating depression naturally is much easier than any other way involving prescription medication. There are less worries about probable side effects, less regret, and more hope for the future of your mental health. More options are available to you when you step outside of the box and consider treating depression without drugs. There are only a limited amount of options to choose from when you decide to medicate with prescriptions, and the possibilities are much more limited.

Psychotherapy is one of the ways you can go about treating depression without drugs. It involves no medicine whatsoever, just you and a psychotherapist who is experienced and familiar with what you are going through. In this type of therapy, you and your counselor will work together to find different ways that work for you to help you overcome your emotional difficulties.

A different way of treating depression naturally is by using natural remedies. It is important that you be aware that natural remedies are not considered to be medications. The most used and highly recommended are SAM-e and St. John's Wort. These two herbal remedies are a synthetic form of a naturally occurring chemical inside of the body. They have been proven most effective for treating the symptoms of depression.

If you are taking any other types of prescription medications, you need to consult your physician before adding these remedies to your daily supplement regimen because there is always the risk of side effects when combine them with unnatural treatments.

Obtaining daily exercise is another way of treating depression naturally. Exercising can also prevent depression symptoms from coming back. It boosts the chemicals in the brain that all medications try to promote: serotonin, dopamine, and norepinephrine. Each of these chemicals have been proven to become imbalanced during depression. It also decreases the amount of cortisol in the body, which has been known to contribute toward weight gain. Individuals who are overweight have also been known to experience an additional amount of depression due to their physical appearance.

Another way to go about treating depression without drugs is to obtain extra daily amounts of folic acid, omega-3 fatty acids, and B vitamins. Try eating more raw fruits and vegetables along with adding more salmon, tuna, and trout. For folic acid, you can either choose to take an additional supplement or eat more whole-wheat breads, peas, beans, spinach, and broccoli-or both.

Natural remedies and treatments can be used for those with depression, as well as for those who want to prevent it without any worries pertaining to side effects, expensive doctor bills, or doubts concerning ineffectiveness.

Everyone is bound to become depressed at some point or another. Sadly, depression is very common and it really shouldn't be. You should always remember to get enough sleep and relaxation time as well. Sometimes when people are depressed, their bodies are just simply worn down. We live in a world full of demands and responsibilities.

Treating depression naturally is a lot less complicated than what you may think, and a lot more effective. It worked for me, and it can work for you.

Benefits of Using Herbs To Fight Depression


Depression is a serious illness which affects the overall health and wellbeing of a person. It affects them mentally and physically. Mental depression symptoms can cause them to feel sad, lonely, and be unable to cope with daily events. It can affect them physically in that it can cause them to overeat, be unable to concentrate, be angry, have a lack of energy and experience mood swings.

Herbs have been used successfully for thousands of years to treat depression and a host of other problems. Many people want alternatives to prescribed antidepressants either because they don't respond well to the drugs or drugs they are taking are not effective for their condition. Some experience very unpleasant side effects or they fail to get any benefit of the drugs. Some herbs can work wonders for depression. One of the primary benefits of using herbs for depression as opposed to prescription drugs is that they are cheaper, safer and rarely cause side effects.

Camu Camu is a very unique tropical rainforest plant which helps depression as well as many other things. It is an adaptogenic plant which means it provides a variety of benefits to the body. Camu Camu bears small red/purple berries which are naturally tangy and somewhat sweet. Camu Camu provides so many benefits for the body that it is often referred to as a superfood. It is known for having the highest amount of vitamin C than any other plant. One of the benefits of vitamin C is that it protects the nervous system. The nervous system includes all the nerves running throughout your body which control multiple functions. The significant amount of vitamin C plus the other compounds of this berry nourishes and protects the brain providing help for those dealing with depression.

Rhodiola Rosea Root is a herb native to Asia, Europe and other area of the Northern Hemisphere. It is an adaptogenic plant which has been safely used for centuries to treat stress, anxiety and depression among other things. Rhodiola Rosea Root is very effective in treating mild to moderate depression. It has been shown to improve mood and help one be able to effectively deal with challenging circumstances. It also helps the body become more resistant to stress.

St. John's Wort is a powerful herb which is often used for treating mild to moderate depression. Multiple studies have confirmed that St. John's Wort is often more successful than prescription drugs. It helps to promote relaxation and improve overall mental health. Many people get fast results once they begin using it.

Herbs are readily available and are very inexpensive compared to the cost of prescription drugs. They can be taken safely and effectively by most people. However, each person is different. Some people may experience unpleasant side effects. Be sure to check with your health practitioner to make sure the herbs you desire to take are safe for you do to so. They will need to make sure that the herbs don't negatively affect any health condition you may have and to make sure they don't interfere with any other medications you might be taking.

4 Things on How to Handle Yourself After Break Up


Many people out there are suffering after break up, some of us don't know how to handle and comfort ourselves. We encounter many trials like we cannot sleep, we cannot eat, we cannot concentrate on what kind of work we had, we are not on the mood, we are angry of everything, only one thing what's on our mind, is that why this thing happened, why we get into this point of separation, why we cannot understand each other, why we did not trust each other, many why's we have on our mind and we keep asking to ourselves again and again. Why's?

First, you have to ask yourself if you still love him/her. If you want him/her to come back into your life, we are the one who can decide for this, advises and supports from friends are only second thoughts or second opinion, but our heart is the one who can decide for everything. If we want him/her to come back, we are the one who can make moves or actions to make him/her back. Pride is always there, after break up we are waiting for each other, who are the one who will first call "You or Him/Her". Because our goal if we are the one who will call first, he/she think that we are the one following him/her, but according to some quotes "If you love somebody, you will eat your Pride". But for some instances like even if you don't have mistaken you're always the one who called or you're always the one who asked for forgiveness or sorry. Time will come that you will get tired of this things and you will realize how awful you are in your relationship. But it doesn't matter how awful you are, the thing is you really love him/her and you are willing to do everything to make him/her back, nobody will stop you and as if you are willing to sacrifice even your own life just you want him/her back.

Second, if you do not want him/her to come back into your life, it's your decision, we know that it's hard but we have to decide in order for him/her to realize what is your importance in his/her life. According to some quotes "You will know the importance of someone, when his/she's gone". Do not put yourself down or betrayed, try yourself to control your feelings and emotions, let him/her do the moves if he/she still in love with you. But this is based on the gravity of the case, if you saw him/her dating with somebody, so what's the reason to stay with him/her. If that would be the case, stop all your means of communication to him/her like email, calling from landline & mobile, sending message through mobile, talking from his/her close friends or relatives. If it's possible change your zim card so that he/she will not reach you anymore, as if stop for contacting him/her at all, you have to cut totally your communication him/her.

Third, you are free now and you can do everything what you want to do, but still your feeling was connected with the past and still fresh for a break up, again it's not easy to forget your ex because it's automatically come in your mind about your sweet memories with him/her, but try yourself to move on, going out with friends, party, disco, swimming, travelling and other activities where you can get some fun and enjoyment. Make yourself busy like attending some seminar, training and business. As some saying goes you can move on if you find somebody whom you can start you're new life with your new love. But it's very normal even if you find a new love that you still remember your past relationship. This is the time now that you can improve your present relationship based from the past experienced, you are aware now for some mistakes and problems that may arise at present, because you learned from your past and you're afraid now to commit any mistake that may lead to another break up, you are be very careful to handle relationship on the second time around and you are strong enough to face any trials.

Fourth, to set your mind focus on what decision you have made, make yourself more attracted by changing your styles, your hair, your clothing line, your accessories and make yourself busy on how to change yourself from being new, make yourself more sexy and attracted. Reborn yourself from the past, change your fashion to a new. So that when your ex see you, he/she feel that you are not affected of the break up and you can easily move on, without any trace of hurt feelings when he/she leaves you. Make him/her feel that it's his/her lost and not your lost. Try to hide and control your feelings when you meet him/her, calm yourself, do not say anything about the past, never to discuss with him/her about the trials you are encountering when you leave him/her, focus on the present issue about his/her life, does he/she move on? Try to convince him/her that you are totally OK and you have already a new life together with your new love (even if you don't have at present). Just let him/her feel the regrets for leaving you, do not cry or do not show your emotion in front of him/her, try to get his/her feelings if he/she still in love with you, because you might know on the other side maybe his/she's the one who will cry in front of you and he/she wants to come back. Remember that you are not always the one who can fix things for your relationship, also your partner has to do the things to fix your relationship, should be give and take in every relationship.

How I Beat Depression Without Medication


I beat depression without medication and so can you. For years I was caught in the unforgiving clutches of manic depression, "bipolar disorder" or what ever else people call being unhappy. Taking complete responsibility for my self was the key, and I'm happy to share what I've discovered with you here.

There are thousands of people and doctors who are more than willing to say that you need to be on medication or that you need the advice of some "expert" with a degree hanging on their wall in order to feel happy. And I guarantee that every one of those people or doctors want your money in exchange for their so-called expert advice or medication. In reality, only you are an expert on you. Only you know what makes you tick and what you should do to improve the quality of your life. The shocking and often avoided truth is: No one else can figure this out for you!

By nature, people seek easy and automatic answers to their problems. And unfortunately, there are stadiums full of others chomping at the bit to tell people where to go and how to live their life for a nominal fee. I know this first hand. I've had my share of being manipulated and taken advantage of by society's "experts" on how to be happy. I noticed one common denominator between them: none of them got to the root of my problem. Their intention was not to help me but to "use me" to help them selves.

Eventually I saw through their facade and immediately took all of my prescribed pills and threw them in the garbage. I felt horrible for a couple days while those toxic chemicals were flushing out of my system. And yes, that's exactly what they are: toxic chemicals. I'm referring to the dozens of different prescription psychiatric medications. Becoming dependent on something outside of you is indeed a destructive dead end road to travel. And putting those foreign substances in your body throws your body's natural chemistry out of whack. Not to mention the horrible side effects they all have.

Most doctors are quick to say someone has a "chemical imbalance" and therefore they should "buy my drugs so I can afford a second yacht!" My question is: a chemical imbalance compared to whom? Every person's body chemistry is different. No one can be compared to others because we are all individuals in completely different situations with different body chemistries.

No one is unhappy because they have a "Prozac deficiency." Your headache doesn't come from having an Advil deficiency. You don't need masks for your problems, you need to stop doing the things that cause the problems! So what are these things that cause depression? Well it's a complicated and dynamic answer. Bare with me for a few sentences so I can give you accurate context:

Unfortunately, society judges mental stability by how well one can accept or conform to the screwed up society we live in. All you have to do is turn on the news to see blatant dishonesties, corruption, war, murder, fraud, and despair every where around us. If we are grounded in reality enough to recognize all of this as fundamentally wrong and against honest productive life, then often we develop mental disorders if we lack the tools to properly deal with such things going on around us.

Yes, everywhere you turn you see an uphill battle: Public education is set up to keep us specialized with impotent minds. The result is we end up never thinking for ourselves and we take orders from someone for 40 years until we're handed a measly retirement. We never fulfill our dreams or even have a clue about how to start to achieve them.

And the business structure is set up the same way. We're expected to clock in from 9-5 every day and do what we're told in stagnate routine ruts void of creation and exhilaration. This is not the way conscious life is meant to exist. Very few people develop enough integrated thinking capabilities to work for themselves doing what they enjoy.

Yes folks, it's an inconvenient truth, but the establishment of society is set up for us to fail in life. From birth we are programmed to fall in line, serve someone else, and do what we're told. And unfortunately you can never find happiness if you're constantly living for someone else. Almost everyone lives a boring stagnate routine life and has to numb the pain on weekends with whatever they can get their hands on. Being strong enough to admit that this is the way things are is the first step in overcoming those bad cards we are all dealt. Denying that things are set up this way is a sure fire way to remain specialized and depressed your whole life.

And now for the biggest tangible value in this article: So where does happiness come from? How do I acquire it? Again genuine happiness does not come from a pill, fancy cars or clothing or from what some PHD tells you to do. Happiness comes from within yourself and it is your prime responsibility to build your amount of happiness.

Happiness comes from putting value into society. It's as simple as that. Human beings are social animals and we derive genuine happiness when we use our honest efforts to put something of tangible value into our society. Ever notice why politicians, tort lawyers, most religious leaders, dishonest journalists and the like are genuinely unhappy people? Despite their fake smiles and keen ability to hood wink others into thinking they "have it made", they are unhappy inside because they take more out of society than they put in. People like this such as the common criminal are parasites on society and quietly envy the honest productive individual who lives through rational action.

It takes honest effort to live in accordance with reality. It requires honest effort to take a brutally honest look at your self and figure out what makes you happy. Once you find out what you enjoy doing...what you are passionate about, you can pursue it and claim your own amassing happiness.

One of my passions is internet marketing. I focus on it everyday because it is something I enjoy. The crazy world around me can do what it wants...but in my private world of bettering myself and acquiring more genuine happiness, I see things for what they are. I look forward to developing my internet marketing skills. I'm drawn to it. Sometimes I wake up at 3:00 in the morning and get on the computer to pursue my passion. This is where genuine happiness comes from. It comes from defining what you're passionate about and pursuing it; nothing more. Your family, romantic partner, and vacations don't give you happiness. They are simply avenues to express and feel your earned self worth and happiness.

Happiness comes from honest productive work. This can come in the form of many different things. The bottom line is: it must be enjoyable for you and a benefit to society. For example: Take a married couple of a man who does honest and enjoyable work that benefits society and his wife who makes a supportive and functional home life for him. They both contribute tangible values to society. He does directly and she does indirectly through him. Now any woman can rise as high as any man in any career...My point is that if you make your livelihood into enjoyable, honest productive work which truly benefits society, you've found the key to happiness.

I stopped letting others tell me what to do, who I should be, and what a "good life" is. I quit depending on others for guidance. I took the time to look within to find out what I enjoy doing. This is an extremely important first step. You must put forth the effort it takes to find what you're passionate about- if you don't know what it is yet.

After defining what I was passionate about, I decided to look out for my own best interest (since no one else was) and I started taking small steps each day to pursue my passion. As you can see, I'm a very individualistic person. My passion for internet marketing allows me to work from home without anyone breathing down my neck and telling me what to do. Personally, for me this is perfect.

After a year or so of stumbling around online, I found a very potent online club for learning internet marketing. I joined the club and to my surprise, I started learning everything there is to know about internet marketing and how to sell products online. I now have the tools to fulfill my dreams. This is just my path. Obviously yours might be quite different. The key is simply finding out for yourself what you enjoy doing and pursue it. No one can do this for you; you have to do it yourself.

I learned to pick my self up by the bootstraps and make a tangible and constant self investment into my future every day. I'm sure you can do the same if being genuinely happy is important enough to you. Just keep in mind, it does take work, there is no easy answer. But if you find something you're passionate about and pursue it at least a little bit every day, you are guaranteed to gain happiness...And who knows? One day you might find yourself doing it for a living!

More Interesting Facts About Bipolar


More and more often these days, people are hearing the term 'bipolar' when addressing behavior problems or issues in friends, acquaintances and family members. The term evokes images of evil behavior in many, while others merely shrug, unaware of what the condition is or how it presents itself in someone's daily life. Basically, being diagnosed as bipolar is identical to what is now more commonly known as manic depression.

More than two million people within the United States have been diagnosed with a bipolar condition, or disease, one that can affect all social classes and age groups. Older people as well as children can be diagnosed with the mental illness that has the power to damage the professional and private lives of those suffering from mood swings that can range from severely depressed to almost hyperactive euphoria and good will.

While many people suffering from this mental disorder may avoid the deep depressions and manic 'highs' of the disease due to proper treatment and medication, thousands of others who have been unable to obtain such treatment suffer from dangerously dehabilitating episodes of depression that threaten relationships, jobs and sometimes, lead to suicide.

Others experiencing the manic side of bipolar symptoms may be happy, cheerful and, to all purposes, 'normal', while others lose reasoning powers that cause them to make decisions they would not normally make. Many bipolar sufferers, when experiencing the manic phase of the condition, make bad financial investments and decisions that affect them for the rest of their lives.

For some, severe depressions and manic episodes are avoided and lifestyles maintain rather normal behavior patterns and remain undiagnosed. Others, after being diagnosed with bipolar disorder, take medications to maintain as normal a lifestyle as possible.

After much research throughout the past few decades, the disorder is now considered to be one that will find a sufferer constantly experiencing one of several ranges of behaviors, from mild to severe. Many patients respond very well to psychotherapy and medications, sometimes a combination of the two.

For those who come from families with a history of the disease, the likelihood that future generations will be diagnosed with the disease increase by more than half. Researchers have been seeking a genetic link to the prevalence of the disease in families, and some progress has been made in studies of gene and myelin development within the central nervous system. Other studies have shown that over one half of patients diagnosed with a bipolar disorder have a history of past substance abuse, especially the use of cocaine.

Left untreated, a diagnosis of a bipolar condition can lead to disrupted lives, feelings of worthlessness, and for many, suicide. Treatment is available and in most cases, helps those diagnosed with the disorder. However, it's important for family and friends to know and recognize the signs and symptoms of behaviors that may indicate a bipolar condition, since more often than not, the person suffering from the condition is hesitant, and understandably so, to discuss their mental state with others.

Signs of Teenage Depression - 4 Quick Tips on Spotting Them


Do you see the signs of teenage depression in your child? If so, read on to find out the most common signs of teenage depression, how to deal with depression and what to do next.


  • Is your teenager depressed? It can be terribly difficult to stop the signs of teenage depression. Be sure to check if your teenager is being bullied, as this can be very traumatic ordeal, which often causes depression. The signs of teenage depression are often overlooked or not taken seriously by friends and parents, but it's a very serious matter that needs to be addressed asap. Teenagers will often display classic depressed symptoms, but if your teenager has displayed a number of the signs of teenage depression for more than two weeks, it's time to take action.

  • The signs of teenage depression and what to look for? Teenagers with depression will often display the following symptoms - A sudden drop in grades, behavioural problems at school, cutting classes, drug or alcohol abuse, spending more time alone than usual, no longer taking part in extracurricular activities, a noticeable change in sleeping and eating habits, a lack of motivation in everything he/she does, discussing feelings of failure or guilt, self harming and suicidal tendencies.

  • How to find out more? The first thing you need to do is talk to your son/daughter. This may be difficult because some teenagers won't want to talk to their parents about their problems. You must be probing but don't be heavy handed, remember - this will be very hard for any teenager. Don't be offended if they don't want to talk to you, instead offer them an alternative. Perhaps you have a family member or friend they would feel more comfortable talking to. If not, you could instead suggest that they meet with teacher or medical professional - alone. Be patient, they'll talk when they are ready.

  • What next? Try talking to your teenagers close friends. It's likely that your son/daughter has discussed their problems with a friend. Keep a discreet eye on your teenager, be there for your child, try and to pull them out of their misery and don't let them be and feel alone. Arrange some fun family activities, perhaps you could even book a family vacation. Keep things light hearted and try to not let your teenager listen to sad music or watch depressing films.

If you think your child is showing signs of teenage depression and has been for sometime, make sure you seek professional medical advice. Click on the links below if you would like some more information on the signs of teenage depression and the help that's available.

Friday, January 24, 2014

How to Identify Symptoms of Stress in Men


Whether young or old, married or single, men experience stress. They can experience stress coming from issues about family, spouse, work, studies, colleagues, and others. In fact, nobody cannot experience stress. In one way or another, we will all experience stress. But the difference lies in how we manage stress. Will we use it to become better persons? Or will we fall victims to stress and let it rule our lives?

In order to properly manage stress, you must be able to identify it first. What are the different symptoms of stress in men?

There are so many possible symptoms of stress in men. These are classified as physical symptoms, behavioral symptoms, emotional symptoms, and cognitive symptoms.

Physical symptoms of stress in men can be any of the following: chest pain, high blood pressure, shortness of breath, fatigue, decreased or increased sex drive, muscle pain, headaches, dizziness, clenched jaws, teeth grinding, indigestion, constipation, diarrhea, perspiration, stomach cramps, unexplained weight gain or loss, and skin problems. As you can see, physical symptoms of stress in men can also be symptoms of another disease. Therefore, if you experience these, visit your doctor for the correct diagnosis.

Behavioral symptoms in men are usually the very first signs that something is wrong. Consciously or unconsciously, men exhibit these behavioral changes because of stress. Examples of behavioral symptoms are decreased or increased appetite, too much or too little sleep, neglecting responsibilities, becoming a procrastinator, isolating yourself from other people, nervous habits (pacing, nail biting, etc.), and use of drugs, cigarettes, and alcohol.

There are also emotional symptoms of stress in men. And like behavioral symptoms, these are also one of the first signs of stress in men. Emotional symptoms are short temper, irritability, mood changes, feeling of isolation, sense of loneliness, depression, feeling of insecurity, general feeling of unhappiness, and feeling of overwhelmed.

Cognitive symptoms of stress in men can be problems with concentration, poor judgment, memory problems, pessimism, anxiety, and constant worrying.

These are the different ways that can help you in identifying stress in men. If you experience any of these, visit your doctor so that the accurate diagnosis is made. Or if you observe any of these symptoms in your friend, husband, sibling, or child, try talking to him and encourage him to visit the doctor.

Symptoms of stress in men can result to bigger problems if this is not managed. For instance, withdrawal and isolation can lead to depression. And depression is the number one cause of suicide. In the workplace, stress can result to decreased productivity which, in turn, can lead to losing one's job. Stress can also affect your relationships. Therefore, the best thing to do after identifying that you are under stress is to learn stress relief techniques.

The Lasting Effects of Concussions in the NFL


Concussions in sports have always been a major concern and its long-lasting effects worrisome for athletes and their families. A former quarterback recently revealed his struggles with having to deal with the effects of the numerous concussions he suffered during his career as a player. He is now forced to seek treatment for short-term memory loss and hand-eye coordination. He is one of many quarterbacks who have had to succumb to concussions during their careers in the NFL.

Many football players have had to endure post-concussion syndrome. The suggestion that concussions contribute to a 'footballer's dementia' is widely debated even though there seems to be a correlation between the cause of deaths of former NFL players and the fact that they had all suffered from head trauma during their career. A former football player, who died of a heart attack at age 50, had exhibited symptoms of depression, memory loss, and Parkinson's disease according to statements made by family members. An autopsy revealed brain damage that may have led to his dementia.

Similar brain damage and mental problems have been linked to the suicides of former NFL players. They had been suffering from severe depression and abnormal behavior. Findings from a study of the brains of dead NFL athletes have found lasting damage to their brains after having received concussions. This damage can also lead to a variety of other health issues. Many concussions may be under-diagnosed as athletes try to cover up their injuries to remain in the game. These symptoms usually go away without the need for treatment, but with successive injuries, the cumulative effects are more severe and changes in neurophysiology can occur after three or more concussions.

It's not clear whether athletes have longer recovery times after repeat concussions and whether cumulative effects such as impairment in cognition and memory occur. In post-concussion syndrome, symptoms don't fade away for weeks, months, or years after suffering a concussion. It may be permanent with ongoing headaches, dizziness, fatigue, anxiety, memory and attention problems, trouble sleeping, and irritability. A 2009 study found that individuals with a history of concussions demonstrated a decline in both physical and mental performance for longer than 30 years.

The risk of developing clinical depression has been found to be greater for retired football players with a history of several concussions than those without a history. The cumulative effects can not only lead to psychiatric disorders and loss of long-term memory, but can also increase the chance of developing Alzheimer's disease earlier in life. Although concussions more commonly occur in sports like American football and boxing, the Centers for Disease Control estimates that at least 300,000 sports-related concussions occur yearly in the U.S.

Preventing concussions in the NFL is a challenging problem. Even though players can expect monetary fines if they make illegal hits, it most likely won't deter a player from trying to intimidate his opponents by head-down tackling or "spearing" them with helmet-to-helmet assaults. Rule changes and practices are frowned upon by athletes and coaches who don't want to play under new, more careful restrictions.

Much like the spectators in the arenas of ancient Rome, the fans must have their gladiators. Despite the danger of injury or even death, the fight must go on in all its bloody brutality. That's the price for glory.

Dysthymic Disorder Defined


Dysthymic Disorder is comparable to chronic depression, but is not as severe as Major Depressive Disorder (MDD). The main symptom of this condition is an almost daily depressed mood for a minimum of two years. Low energy, changes in sleeping and eating habits and low self-worth are generally on the list of the clinical symptoms as well.

The following behaviors are also connected with someone who has Dysthymic Disorder:

1) Changes in Thinking - Many folks experience difficulty with concentrating and making decisions. Some people have difficulty with their short term memory. Negativity, poor self-esteem, too much guilt, and self-criticism are common as well.

2) Changes in Feelings - A number of folks say they feel gloomy for no good reason or that they no longer like activities they once found to be pleasing. Some feel exhausted and run down constantly. At times irritability and a short-temper are issues as well. Frequently, Dysthymic disorder brings on feelings of helplessness and hopelessness.

3) Becoming Reclusive - Suddenly becoming ill at ease around other folks. Some people experience a change in appetite - either overeating or losing their appetite. Unremitting sadness and weeping jags are not uncommon. And others may blow up in anger unexpectedly for reasons unknown at others, grumble about every little thing. Loss of sexual appetite and - in extreme cases - some folks stop bathing and brushing their hair for weeks.

4) Changes in Physical Well-being - unremitting fatigue is common, despite spending more hours sleeping... Some folks can't fall asleep, or don't sleep well. They lay awake for hours, or awaken several times in the night. Others sleep lots of hours, even most of the day, but still feel tired. A number of people lose their appetite, feel slowed down by depression, and complain of a variety of aches and pains.

Treating Dysthymic Disorder

Psychiatric treatment is often good at treating the symptoms of Dysthymic Disorder - in spite of its obvious long-term nature. Some people get better with antidepressant medication and psychiatric treatment together - similar to traditional chronic depression treatments.

Second, cognitive therapy is used to amend the pessimistic ideas, foolish expectations, and excessive self-criticism that not only cause the depression but help to prolong it. Cognitive therapy can help a depressed person be able to identify which of life's problems are serious and which are minor. Plus it helps them learn how to deal with and accept those normal life setbacks that inevitably arise from time to time - which can't be changed and have to be faced.

Third, problem solving therapy is frequently needed to adjust the parts of the individual's life that are causing considerable stress, and contributing to the depression. The ultimate purpose of behavioral therapy is to help the patient cultivate better coping techniques, while interpersonal therapy can help them in working with and resolving their relationship conflicts.

Anxiety Depression Chat Rooms - Find Help Online


Anyone suffering from depression and is being treated for it will find that spending some time online in anxiety depression chat rooms is a very good thing. They will be able to discuss the emotional problems they have been dealing with while remaining safely anonymous, and they will be able to speak with people who understand what they are going through. Suffering from depression - whether it's anxiety depression, bipolar disorder, or just major depression - does not have to be done alone.

DailyStrength.org wants to help you

DailyStrength.org is an Internet anxiety depression chat room and website geared to help people suffering from the effects of depression. The founders have over twenty years of Internet experience and have a staff of health care experts acting as advisors on the website. One doctor is a paediatrician to help with childhood issues, one specializes in internal medicine, and two are marriage and family therapists. There is an additional core of advisors ranging from stay at home mothers with over twenty years of child-rearing experience, bereavement counsellors, and even a television executive who specializes in women issues.

What the community offers their members

DailySrength.org was developed and designed to help people facing challenges in their life - most notably anxiety and depression - by having a place that was simple to use. Here they can communicate how they are doing with their friends and family, support individuals, and others, giving them a place to respond back with the encouragement, and love. It also helps individuals find other people who are in the same proverbial boat, giving them a chance to see that they are not alone in their suffering and that by sharing experiences, talking, treatments and even just some online affection in a safe community environment.

There is community for everyone on DailySrength.org, over 500 all together that are specific to medical problems and life challenges. They will even create a community if there is one you need and it is not there. The support staff are available twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week, 365 days a year so that you can talk to someone whenever you need to. The support staff and advisors are all people who have faced depression, anxiety, and other ailments, and many of their family members are part of the community. Potential members can talk to others about similar treatments, lift someone up who is in a bad place, read news on each community, recommendations for just about everything, and a place to put up photos and journals.

How the community helps you

The first thing a potential member will need to do is sign up for a free account and then start their own wellness journal. In here they will chronicle their bouts with anxiety, depression, and anything else they wish in an effort to share their story with others so that they can begin to heal. It is not necessary for anyone to use their real name, but they can if they so desire. The next step is to invite family, friends, and support personnel to the site for additional support and strength. New members will join a community that fits their needs and then begin to interact with other members and make new friends.

By being able to offer support to others suffering the same anxiety depression, individuals will be able to help themselves as well. This community is also open to anyone with the desire to simply come in and offer other members a helping hand. Sometimes just having a shoulder to lean on and knowing that someone out there really does care is enough to bring anyone closer to healing.

5 Signs That Your Relationship May Be Causing Your Depression


If relationship problems are making you feel down, then it is time for you to beat the depression. Romantic relationships are fun to be with, loving someone and getting back love in return is a beautiful thing. But when a relationship turns toxic for one or both partners, then there is reason to worry about it. If you are depressed and find yourself down in the dumps on more days than not, then you may have to do a re-think about whether you want to be in the relationship anymore. Following are 5 signs that your relationship may be the cause of your depression.

• You and your lover bicker all the time when you are together. It doesn't need a point of conflict, anything can start it. Everything, from the food you cooked, or the dress you wore, or about how to spend the evening or where to go and what to eat results in mindless bickering. In a healthy relationship, both of the lovers should be able to talk about everything, from simple to complex. When you find that bickering is replacing conversation in your relationship, then you need to fight the blues that come with it.

• True, life is busy these days. If both of you are holding full-time jobs, juggling work and love is not easy. But when you find that you or your partner is making an effort to stop spending time together, trouble must be brewing. An abrupt shift in the time spent together and a drastic lessening of activities you enjoyed doing together previously may want you to look for ways to fight depression and anxiety. Too much separation may lead to loss of intimacy.

• Do you or your lover insult each other all the time? When you are in the company of other people, do you find your lover insulting you and trying bring you down? Does he verbally abuse you and make you feel small? Does your lover raise doubts about your mental state and call you insane? Does your lover make an effort to make you feel bad about the way you look, dress, do things, cook, etc.? If this is the pattern of your relationship, then you must make a conscious effort to battle depression on your own.

• Your lover manipulates your sex life. Without bothering about what you are feeling or what you want, your lover wants sex from you whenever he/she wants it. A couple of times of this occurrence may be excused, but when it becomes an everyday affair, then you must know that it is not a normal relationship.

• Your lover is jealous for no reason. It is not that he/she is jealous of you flirting with other people but rather it is a result of a deep sense of insecurity and lack of self-esteem your lover may be suffering from.

Beating depression that arises out of a relationship may actually lead to a break up. It is for you to decide.

33 Ways to Get and Keep Yourself Motivated


1. Ignore The Unimportant

Learning to ignore is a fantastic lesson. Much more rewarding that you think. There must be an art of ignoring and they should teach it in universities. Spanning your focus in so many areas will only weaken you. Ignoring what's unimportant will free up energy and help you stay focused and productive.

2. Understand What Makes You Bored

And avoid it. Boredom is a nasty place to be. But as any other state of your being can be understood and you can identify the triggers. Once you understand that, you can safely go away from the gray zone. Takes some time but it really worth the effort.

3. Laugh More Often

Watch comedies, read comics. Throw away that ugly seriousness form your face. Laughing is a safety valve for your stress relief mechanism. It actually let it out from your body in bursts. And while you're laughing you can still learn new stuff, like personal development lessons from Dumbo.

4. Keep A Log Of Your Breakthroughs

Do you remember when you had the first major success of your life? I thought so. We tend to overlook this simple habit of writing down our feelings every time we have a major breakthrough in our lives. Keep a log of your successes. And get inspired by it.

5. Exercise

This is one the easiest and simplest way to get motivated. Just walk out from the office, start doing some pushups or just go for a short run around the house. It will instantly declutter your physical body. Every time you exercise, you produce endorphins. Endorphins are good.

6. Create A Custom Environment

You can't be motivated if you work in an environment which does not represent you. Make changes, adjust, improve. Doesn't matter if it's about your job office or your home. Whatever the space you work in, make it yours somehow, that will lower your unconscious adaptation efforts and you'll have more time dedicated to the actual tasks.

7. Read Success Stories

Like in other people success stories. Get inspired. Admire them (with caution, but do admire them). Reading about success will make it more available to you and will fuel your efforts towards its achievement. And of course, you can learn how to be successful too.

8. Switch Tasks

You will get bored if you work on the same projects for too long. Boredom kills motivation. Try having several small projects that you can land on whenever you feel you're on the verge of a burn out. Not to mention that switching tasks will instantly create fresh perspectives, helping you solve problems faster.

9. Assess Your Progress

If you work constantly you will make some progress, that's a rule. You may have the impression that you're not going anywhere but that's because you're skipping all those little milestones you go through every day. Watching back with satisfaction at what you created will surely boost your energy.

10. Talk About Your Projects

With your friends or family. Let the people know you're doing stuff. That will often make yourself aware of the fact that you're actually doing stuff and enjoy doing it. It will also create a certain level of accountability that will most likely push you forward.

11. Avoid Energy Vampires

Naysayers, pessimists, braggers they all are sucking up your energy. Don't get caught in such power games, avoid at all costs those energy leaks. Even if that means you'll isolate more often. It's better to do work in your own secluded realm than to try to resist to a diminisihing environment.

12. Write Clear Goals

Most of the time that translates to actually write down your goals, you already have them clear in your mind. But take them out of your mind, put them in a trusted system and move on. Your mind works better when it knows what it has to do not when it spends time figuring what it has to do.

13. Exercise Satisfaction

Once you finished some task, reward yourself. Give yourself a prize. No need to be a huge one, but just enough to create the habit. Look forward to it while you're working, wait for it, praise for it. In time you'll become addicted to this fulfillment satisfaction and you won't stop until you reach it.

14. Accept Failure

As part of the game. Failure, like success, is just a result of your actions, nothing more. One of the biggest motivation enemies is fear of failure. Fear that your outcome will turn bad. Accept it. It may turn bad, but that doesn't mean you have to stop doing what you're doing. Give your best and hope for the best.

15. Use Affirmations

Like writing down your intentions, your goals, your current status. Affirmations are a very powerful tool, hugely underrated. People find it awkward to write self-directed messages and read them out loud. News flash: you're doing this all the time, unconsciously. So why not doing it consciously? Start with a morning phrase.

16. Play Games

Impersonate people. Imitate animals. Pretend you're Sindbad the Sailor. Playing challenging games will relax your mind and at the same time will gather more resources from secret sources. A good motivation is always blended with joy. You can start with a simple game like how to get from a to b in 5 random steps.

17. Say "No"

Say "no" to distractions, to trolls, to depression. Exercising "no"'s is liberating. Too often too many commitments are making your life a continuous chore. Limit your promises and only get into things you really want to finish. Once you do that, go to a mirror, smile and start to politely exercise your "no"'s.

18. Look For Positive People

Sadness, whining and complaining doesn't play well with motivation. On the contrary. But positive, optimistic, energetic people will always shift your vibration in the right direction. Search them, find them and become their friend. Sometimes all you need to get motivated is to be surrounded by shiny happy people.

19. Difficulty Is Part Of The Game

Learn to work under pressure. Some things are more difficult than other. Accept that fact and focus on doing what you have to do not on your feelings of dissatisfaction. Difficulty is often what makes things worth doing. No sweat, no glory. Whenever I feel something is going to be tough, I'm usually more motivated to do it. The reward will be higher.

20. Create Personal Challenges

Personal challenges are short term goals, usually from 15 to 90 days. Like starting to exercise, or creating a habit from scratch in 15 days. Using personal challenges strengthen your inner power the same way exercising is strengthening your muscles. The more you do, the more motivated you feel to do even more.

21. Chose Positive Motivation

Whenever you lock in your motivation, do your best to keep it on the positive side, which is rooted in service. As opposed to the negative motivation, which is basically rooted in fear. Negative motivation works just the same, only it lasts significantly less than positive motivation.

22. Release Your Guardians

You do have guardians and some of them are pretty nasty. They won't let you do your stuff. The bad thing about your guardians is that most of the time they're working at the unconscious level, really difficult to interact with. Just accept, acknowledge and let them go. You will be much better off.

23. Enforce Your Personal Mission

You gotta have a personal mission. If you don't, go find one fast. Reinforcing your personal mission at certain intervals is surely one of the greatest motivators of all. It's like looking on a map and seeing at any moment where you are, how much do you have to go and which path you have to chose.

24. Spend Time Outside

If you can do something creative, like gardening or landscaping, even better. But it's OK even if you don't. Spending time outside of your box will clear the air inside. When you get back, everything will be fresher and shinier. And something fresher is always a nice motivator.

25. Keep A Clean Inbox

That's one of the few GTD concepts I still use and it proves to be a great motivator. A clean inbox helps a smooth thoughts flow. A smooth thoughts flow let me be in the moment without any hidden burdens. Being in the moment is usually all I need to actually start doing things.

26. Don't Aim For Perfection

It will soon drain you out. Aiming to be better is the real game. Perfection is a dead end, nothing really happens after you reached to it. Accepting that you can be better instead of perfect leaves some room for growth. And that means you have a reason to do more. And that's what we usually call motivation, right?

27. Do One Thing At A Time

Multitasking is a myth. Even computers processors aren't really doing multi-tasking, that's what we perceive. Instead they have a single frequency and several parallel buses managing information, faking a multi-tasking activity. Multitasking is creating internal conflicts, both in humans and in computers. You end up spending more time solving those conflicts than actually working.

28. Keep A Source Of Inspiring Readings

You're not always completely down, most of the time you're just averagish, just one sentence away from your best shape. Be sure to keep around a list of inspiring readings. Quotes, blog posts, ebooks, whatever works for you. You can start with 100 ways to live a better life, for instance.

29. Put On Some Good Music

Just let it there, floating around, don't turn the volume knob. Just enough to recreate a pleasant atmosphere. Music speaks to areas you can't control with logical tools, yet is so powerful that can completely shift your mood in a second. The only thing better than silence is good music.

30. Don't Fall Into The Productivity Trap

It's not how much you do, but how much of it really matters. Doing stuff just for filling up notebooks with tasks won't make you feel motivated. On the other side, whenever you're doing something that matters, your planing and organizing activities will just flow.

31. Keep Your Life Lenses Clean

Your camera objective may be blurred but you don't know. This is why you get the same picture again and again, this is why feel stuck and can't seem to see any progress. Sometimes all you have to do is to clean up your lenses. It takes a little bit of courage but it's worth the trouble.

32. Clean Up Your House

I know you need motivation for that too, but believe me, it's a fantastic way to clean up your internal garbage. Cleaning up your house is not a chore, it's a necessity. Your action paths may be clogged the same way your floor is sticky. And most of the time unsticking the floor will open your mind again.

33. Stop Reading This And Get To Work

It was fun reading it, I'm sure. But it won't get things done in your place. Inspiration is a good motivator, but don't abuse it. Now, that you are all energized, it's time for you to get back to work. Of course, you can bookmark this post for future motivation sessions, but for now, just go back to work.

Thursday, January 23, 2014

A Natural Approach to Solving Depression


Depression is a condition that currently affects many Americans and if you are one of them you know how hard it can be just to get through the day sometimes. There are many great pharmacological solutions on the market, but they come with costly side effects that can leave you feeling worse. There are also many natural approaches to controlling depression that have good results. It is amazing how solutions as simple as exercise, nutrition, and taking time for yourself can help with the oppressive symptoms of depression.

Exercise Your Way to Happier Feelings

Exercise actually releases chemicals in the brain that can change your mood. These chemicals are called endorphins and they have the ability to reduce pain, stress, and anxiety. They actually act in the same way that analgesic do in the brain.

You do not need to do strenuous exercise to reap the benefits of endorphins. In fact, a brisk walk, swim or a bike ride will do just as much good. You simply have to find a physical activity you enjoy and get moving.

Another great thing about endorphins is they are non-habit forming so you can find relief for depression without fear of dependence.

Nutrition that Will Improve Mood

Depression can make it hard to eat the right amount and kinds of food. Many people react to depression by eating either too much food or too little. However, your diet does matter when it comes to controlling the symptoms of depression. Simply put, food is fuel for the body and if it does not get the right fuel, then it will not work in an efficient manner.

Balance is the key when it comes to diet. You need to eat a balance of carbohydrates, protein and fat. One fat that it is good to get more of is omega-3 fatty acids. A lack of omega-3 fatty acids has been shown to cause depression.

Another vitamin which you may not get enough of, but may help keep depression down is B-12. It may not decrease depression, but if you are low in B-12, then it could make the problem worse.

Meditate Your Way to a Better Perspective

When you are depressed either you have trouble calming your thoughts and you are anxious, or it seems as though your thoughts are running in slow motion. Meditation is a way to bring these thought patterns back to the center. It will allow you to work through thoughts and emotions causing feelings of depression. There are some thoughts and feelings you will be able to tackle on your own, and there are others for which it is best to see a professional therapist to help you. In either case you will be one step closer to understanding the root of the problem with meditation.

Make Sure you are Getting Enough Time to do What You Love

It may sound simple, but find something you love to do and set aside a healthy amount of time to engage in that activity. First, it is important to take time for yourself. Secondly, a hobby you enjoy can have a similar affect to endorphins helping improve your mood. This is probably one of the most natural ways you can decrease depression.

Manic Depression Revealed


Bipolar Disorder also known as manic depression is a disorder that falls into the family of depression or mood disorders. Mood disorders effect how a person feels and is totally different to a disorder such as schizophrenia that make it hard for a person to distinguish whats real from what isn't.

Mental disorders or illnesses are not the type of problems that a person can easily overcome, they are not something that they asked for. They can't be overcome by willpower because they are problems that effect the brain. With proper treatment a person suffering with a mental illness such as manic depression can learn to control their symptoms and regain their quality of life.

Manic depression is an illness or disorder that affects a persons mood, one moment they can have a greatly elevated mood ('Manic') followed by a period of feeling low ('Depression'). Its perfectly normal for someone to have high and low moods but someone suffering from manic depression experiences greatly exaggerated highs and lows. Because manic depression is a chronic condition these episodes may come and go but they never truly go away untreated.

Someone in a manic phase of their depression may have a very high self-esteem, they may take risks that they would not normally take such as abusing drugs and alcohol or driving in a reckless manner. They may spend money in a way they wouldn't usually and its not uncommon for them to have a higher than usual sex drive.
Manic depression may also make someone suffer from sleep deprivation making them seem angry or irritable, this is due to them having an increased energy level making them feel high.

A person in the depressive stage of their illness is vastly different from the manic stage in that they suffer from feelings of hopelessness, guilt or even wanting to die. A change in appetite, a decrease in energy and an increase in the ability to make decisions can occur. Stomach aches and headaches is also a common part of the depressive state of Manic Depression.

In the United States more that 15% of all illnesses are mental illnesses. This equates to more that all forms of cancer or problems associated with drug and alcohol addiction. If you know of someone that has been diagnosed with manic depression then they are in good company. It is estimated that around two to 4 percent of the worlds population of 222 million suffer from some form of manic depression.

Treatment of manic depression.

Its not common knowledge but there is no cure for manic depression, but the symptoms can be treated and controlled by the use of medication. Acute symptoms caused by severe episodes of mania or depression are treated with some specific medication whilst other medication is used to prevent future episodes from occurring. These types of medications are referred to as 'maintanance threrapy'.

In addition to medication, people with manic depression can benefit from psychotherapy as part of their treatment process. The therapy process is good because it can make someone come to terms with their illness and see exactly what it means for them. Because of this, someone can better understand how their illness or disorder effects their relationships with their family and friends.

If the person undergoing treatment is having a depressive episode the therapy may help them to adopt some thought processes that are positive instead of the negative ones that they have that make them depressed. They may be able to recognise when a manic or depressive episode is starting and seek out the appropriate help quickly. If other family members attend the therapy too they will better understand the disorder and may too be able to help in the future.

Manic depression is a chronic but treatable mental illness. Getting proper treatment is key to having a good quality of life.

Dave Matthews Band Quotes - And Why They Are So Memorable


A good quote will create a kind of "placeholder" in your mind. It sits there like a seed burying itself deeper into your subconscious, gaining roots. You hear it one day, then, you forget it. But something stays hidden, if only on the cusp of our memories. Then one day you find yourself stuck in a country, awaiting your immigration papers. Not allowed to work and not allowed to leave. It takes you 7 months just to fill out the overly invasive paperwork and then you have to wait another year and a half just to find out if you can even stay. It's only then and without warning do the words "I say my hell is the closet I'm stuck inside", come resonating like a crushing wave into your heart.

This is the power of a great quote. It's a wise man's pandora box that only truly opens when you've faced life's great experiences. Dave Matthews Band has many of these quotes. Some of my favorite quotes are...

1) "I say my hell is the closet I'm stuck inside" - To Much To Say

2) "Take what you can from your dreams, make them as real as anything." - Grey St.

3) "What you get when you give nothing is everything you gave." - DMB

The 1st quote is from their second studio recording entitled Crash. So Much To Say comes crashing in as the first track and first single release from this album. It won a Grammy back in 1997 for Best Rock Performance By a Duo or Group and only reached #19 on the Modern Rock Charts. This quote from the song is a fantastic reflection on how the world we live in can box us in creating a kind of emotional torture. We can escape the world we live in but we can't escape ourselves.

The 2nd quote is from the rocking tune "Grey St" where Dave Matthews says that the song was originally inspired by the poet Anne Sexton and how her depression eventually led to her taking her life. In addition to that, this quote also to has other meanings such as an encouragement to all who struggle on the day to day. Don't be discouraged with your life, but take from it what you're able to. Dream, and turn those dreams into realities.

The 3rd quote is one of their greatest in my opinion. A true soothsayer's guide to life, if you will. If you live a life of not giving then life will give nothing in return. In other words, you only get what you put in. Kind of like a savings account.

Depression Disorder, Eating


The longer an eating disorder goes untreated, the greater the chance there is of developing a depressive disorder, and yet at the same time, depression and other mental health problems are also known to increase the risk of developing an eating disorder. The fact is there is a relationship between depression and eating disorders and other mental health problems can coexist with both.

Both depression and eating disorders are becoming increasingly common. According to the Mental Health Foundation 10% of the population in the UK will experience some form of depression every year, and 2% of women as well as some men will suffer from an eating disorder. Anorexia is more likely to affect young women whereas bulimia is more likely to affect older women and is more common than anorexia. Compulsive eating affects both women and men equally and approximately 10% of all people with eating disorders are men.

What is a depressive disorder?

A depressive disorder can be defined as a set of symptoms ranging from mild to severe that coexist with overwhelming feelings of sadness and an inability to take pleasure in activities that were once enjoyed to the extent that they interfere with normal daily routines. There are several different types of depressive disorders including clinical depression, bipolar disorder or manic depression, post natal depression, seasonal affective disorder or SAD and post traumatic stress disorder. No one knows why some people become depressed and not others, but low self esteem is known to increase the risk of developing a depressive disorder and is also an underlying factor in eating disorders.

Symptoms of depression

o Feeling tired and lethargic for most of the time

o Persistent low moods and sadness, a feeling of despondency

o Sleep disturbances, either inability to sleep or sleeping too much

o A pessimistic outlook on life

o Feeling anxious and nervous

o Feelings of worthlessness or guilt, low self esteem

o Frightening and irrational thoughts

o Loss of pleasure in activities and lack of interest in sex

o Avoidance of social contact and social situations

o Changes in appetite involving either loss of appetite or an increased appetite and associated weight loss or weight gain

o Emotional outbursts for no apparent reason

o Irritability

Eating disorders

There are three main types of eating disorders and these include:

o Anorexia Nervosa - characterised by a fear of putting on weight to such an extent that the person doesn't eat or eats very little, sometimes to the extent that they can starve themselves to death. By controlling what, when, and if they eat, they feel safe, secure and in control. Feelings behind anorexia include a low self esteem, a distorted self image and fear of rejection. It is a potentially life threatening condition.

o Bulimia Nervosa - someone with bulimia eats copious amounts of food and then feel guilty and out of control so try to purge themselves by vomiting, starving themselves or taking laxatives. It is harder to detect than anorexia because the weight remains relatively stable and the sufferer keeps their behaviour hidden, it is also more common than anorexia.

o Compulsive eating - involves eating for comfort or for emotional security and is characterised by nibbling all day without being able to stop. People who eat compulsively are usually overweight. It can be a way of denying or avoiding problems and is often associated with low self esteem, feelings of worthlessness, loneliness and emptiness.

Possible triggers of depression and eating disorders

There is not a single cause that will trigger either depression or an eating disorder as combinations of factors are involved. For example:

o Stressful events and experiences such as problems at home, bullying, abuse, loss of someone close, rejection, failing at school or work, coping with puberty, worries about sexuality, etc. can all result in a extreme stress which can act as a trigger.

o Either physical or mental health problems can trigger an eating disorder or depression. For example, someone struggling with a physical illness or disability can become depressed. Depression or anxiety related disorders can trigger an eating disorder, and someone with an eating disorder can develop depression - both are linked.

o Low self esteem and feelings of insecurity or feeling out of control of ones life can increase the risk of developing depression or an eating disorder or both.

Some other psychological disorders that can accompany eating disorders include:

o Obsessive Compulsive Disorder

o Manic depression

o Panic disorders

o Anxiety disorders

o Post traumatic stress disorder

o Attention Deficit Disorder

At the root of eating disorders are negative feelings including low self esteem, guilt, shame, sadness, anger, stress, feeling deserving of pain and punishment, all of which can be symptoms of depression too.

Conclusion

The biggest step to combating both depression and any eating disorder is to admit there is a problem in the first place as many people will deny there is anything wrong and without appropriate treatment, these mental health problems can continue indefinitely, and can even be life threatening. It is absolutely essential to seek help from a qualified medical professional in order to receive an accurate diagnosis and the right treatment, support and guidance to ensure a full recovery.

What Are Common Symptoms of Adult ADHD


What are common symptoms of adult ADHD, and how do these differ from symptoms in kids? ADHD is a disorder more commonly discovered in childhood. To meet diagnostic criteria, according to the DSM- IV- TR (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual version IV- Text Revision), symptoms of the disorder must be present by age 7. Even though symptoms or even a mild form of the disorder may be present in childhood, it is not uncommon for it to be discovered or seek treatment for it only in adulthood. Presently, there is not a separate symptom criteria for the diagnosis of ADHD in adults. Criteria for ADHD in childhood is often used and adapted to better account for the difference in life and developmental stages of adults. Symptoms in both children and adults largely stem from the hypo-functioning of certain areas of the brain that control executive functioning. The presentation of these symptoms in adulthood is often seen in the workplace and in the family and social arena. The main symptom clusters for both children and adults are in attention, hyperactivity and impulsivity. However, the disorder can look very different from child to adult and even person to person. Symptom Criteria from the DSM-IV-TR:

a) Symptoms of inattention:

1) Fails to pay close attention to details- tends to rush and often makes careless mistakes

2) Difficulty sustaining attention-tends to have poor concentration, difficulty initiating and completing tasks, tendency to get off task easily

3) Does not appear to listen- can "zone out" during conversations with others and may not realize it, thus losing important bits of information

4) Struggles to follow through on instructions- poor listening skills and memory contribute to difficulty following directions

5) Difficulty with organization- often has poor time management and is often late, often has a messy, disorganized or cluttered area in home/work place/car.

6) Avoids or dislikes tasks that require mental effort- tends to procrastinate

7) Easily distracted

8) Forgetful in daily activities- often misses deadlines, commitments and other important events or dates. Often losing or misplacing things such as keys, phones, bills, work

b) Symptoms of Hyperactivity/ Impulsivity:

1) Fidgets with hands, feet/legs, objects- may appear to have nervous energy, restless or anxious

2) Difficulty remaining seated- tends to get bored easily

3) Runs/climbs excessively- The highly energetic, "climbing-up-the-walls" energy commonly seen in childhood settles down by the mid teenage years. In late teens and adults 'hyperactivity' is more subtle

4) Difficulty in engaging in activities quietly- tends to crave excitement

5) Acts as if driven by a motor- tends to have more risk-taking behavior, acts reckless

6) Talks excessively- tends to have racing thoughts, states mind doesn't shut off, hyperactivity of the mind

7) Blurts out answers before questions have been completed-difficulty inhibiting ones actions

8) Has difficulty waiting or taking turns- poor patience

9) Interrupts or intrudes upon others- poor self-control, makes inappropriate comments

A certain number of symptoms need to be present in 2 or more settings- work, home, school, etc. The symptoms must also cause a functional impairment in those setting.

Is adult ADHD on the rise, and if so, why?

Adult ADHD is becoming more widely recognized and more people are been diagnosed than before, however, this is likely a function of more acceptance and consensus that the disorder can occur in adulthood. As well as better screening techniques with improved detection and treatment options. Adult ADHD is still largely under-reported and under-diagnosed.

If an adult thinks he might have ADHD, who should he see for a diagnosis/treatment?

Where a child can see a pediatrician or a Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist for diagnosis and treatment, an adult should see a mental health professional / Psychiatrist. Psychiatrist are specially trained and likely have more experience in recognizing symptoms of ADHD, diagnosing ADHD, and are more familiar with available treatments for Adult ADHD. Additionally, an adult who suspects ADHD, may want to find a Psychiatrist who has training or experience in working with children and adolescents- as these subspecialist have the most training and experience with the disorder. Once diagnosed, the treatment is multifactorial and best conducted through a team approach with professionals such as Psychiatrists to prescribe medications and Psychologists or other trained counselors/therapists to provide cognitive-behavioral therapy and skills training to learn practical solutions to everyday problems.

What are the treatment options for adult ADHD? Do all adults diagnosed with ADHD need medication? Will they need to take medication for life?

Treatment options are often the same for adults as in children, and typically consist of a combination of therapy, lifestyle adjustments, and medications. Therapies include behavioral modifications and skills training to manage the core deficiencies of ADHD including- organization, planning, time management, memory and impulsivity. Important lifestyle issues that need to be addressed and modified are adequate sleep, healthy diet, and regular physical activity. Medications target these symptoms chemically and can be very effective. According to the DSM-IV, to meet the diagnostic criteria for ADHD, symptoms should cause "social, occupational or functional impairment", therefore medications may be indicated especially if the therapy and lifestyle changes don't effect much improvement. Adults on medications may be able to be more successful at work and with their family/social life, and be better able to use their ADHD management skills to create a better routine and structure for their life. Depending on the severity of symptoms and the success of incorporating the skills training into ones daily life, it is possible to come off medications. Medications are just one piece of the treatment puzzle. Since there is no "cure" for ADHD, some form of treatment will always be needed, however, it may be as simple as keeping organized and getting enough sleep.

Some adults might say that they've made it this far w/o needing treatment. Why start now? How might untreated ADHD affect a person's life?

It is possible not to need "treatment" consisting of medications; however, it is unlikely that no component of treatment will be needed. Some adults with ADHD may be managing their symptoms and not really know it. How many times have we heard, "if I don't get enough sleep, I can't think straight", or "if it doesn't go in my planner, it doesn't exist", or "I need my double shot espresso in the morning to get me focused" (caffeine is a weak stimulant)- not saying that everyone who says and does these things has ADHD, but some who are aware of their issues maybe managing symptoms in various fashions. Also certain environments may be more conducive to managing the disorder than others. I have encountered many young adult patients who were valedictorians of their small highly structured high school class, however, upon entering a big university with less structure and guidance, they start having more problems with organization, meeting deadlines and academic performance. It is not that they suddenly "caught" ADHD; the disorder was likely present to some degree since childhood, however a change in the environment caused symptoms to be problematic enough to cause functional impairment. I've heard similar situations occur in work settings as well. If functional impairment exists, it is best to discuss treatment options with mental health professionals and your physician. Studies have shown that people with untreated ADHD are more likely to experiment/ "self-medicate" with substances, more likely to be unemployed, more likely to divorce and have relational issues and more likely to be involved in motor vehicle accidents.

I've read that people with ADHD often have other mental health problems like depression or anxiety. Please tell me more about the connection.

People diagnosed with ADHD are more likely to have other mental health diagnosis as well, in some reports 6x as likely. Reasons for this are multi-factorial. They can be due to chemical pathways and "wiring" in the brain- ADHD often seen with learning disabilities in children, esp. for reading. Other disorders can occur because the untreated ADHD symptoms put them at risk for other disorders- i.e. a child with ADHD who is extremely hyperactive, may be more likely to be abused and subsequently develop anxiety from the trauma.

I often see problems like depression and anxiety to be the primary reason one may seek treatment- esp. in adults and older teens. It is the untreated ADHD symptoms that can lead to repeated failures, poor performance (at home, school, work), and strained relationships which, depending on how longstanding, can lead to frustration, irritability and a low self-worth. Over time this stress and thought patterns can lead to serious depression.

At times, it appears that untreated ADHD can mimic symptoms of depression and by treating the ADHD, one starts to do better, accomplish more, get praise and improve self-esteem the depression is also treated. If depressive symptoms or disorder is co-occurring, it may be necessary to treat both issues.

Is there a genetic link to ADHD? If your child has it, does that mean you might have it and not recognize it?

There is a strong genetic link to ADHD as well as other mental health disorders. Accd. to Dr. Biederman and research from Massachusetts General Hospital, if a child has ADHD there is a five-fold increase in the risk to other family members (1). Genetic links are also discovered by doing twin (identical vsfraternal) studies. Identical twins have the same DNA, fraternal twins have DNA like any other sibling would share. In one such study, Dr. Florence Levy and her colleagues studied 1,938 families with twins and siblings in Australia. They found that ADHD has an exceptionally high heritability as compared to other behavioral disorders. They reported an 82 percent concordance rate for ADHD in identical twins as compared to a 38 percent concordance rate for ADHD in non-identical twins. (2)

If you or no one around you is recognizing it as a problem causing functional impairment, then the disorder may not be present or meet sufficient criteria for ADHD.

(1) Biederman, J., Faraone, S. V., Keenan, K., Knee, E., et al. (1990). Family-genetic and psychosocial risk factors in DSM-III attention deficit disorder. Journal of the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, 29, 526-533.

(2) Levy, F., Hay, D.A., McStephen, M., Wood, C., & Waldman, I. (1997). Attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder: a category or a continuum? Genetic analysis of a large-scale twin study. Journal of the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, 36, 737-744.

Depression Solutions - The Twelve Top Physical Causes


Searches for solutions to depression are all too often assumed to lie in the emotional realm. That's because depression was considered to be an emotionally-generated symptom, so the assumption was that it would be resolved through the emotional realm. That's why it was addressed with counseling or therapy - often years of it, and that's why physical issues were typically overlooked or put aside.

Then it was considered to be 'all in your head' due to a chemical imbalance in your brain such as a serotonin deficiency, or a disturbance in serotonin metabolism. That's why it was addressed with anti-depressant medications that affected serotonin levels in your brain.

But that can be a big mistake, because sometimes it's not just 'all in your head.' Here are twelve physical conditions that can give rise to depression symptoms. If you or someone you know is suffering from depression, be sure to check out all of these conditions in looking for a solution.

What is depression?

Depression is an emotional symptom, often seen in a negative attitude, low mood and loss of interest in people and things that are normally of interest. It may even involve feelings of guilt, low self-worth, having low energy, poor concentration, disturbances in ability to sleep, disordered appetite. The feelings of sadness, despair and discouragement can be profound.

All these emotional symptoms are the main reason depression is usually approached as having emotional origins that require emotional approaches - psychotherapy, counseling and/ or treatment with anti-depressive drugs.

But here's the thing: contrary to what we usually assume, depression, more often than not, has its origins in physical problems. This means that these emotional symptoms are resolved by

addressing the physical issue(s). Below is a summary of the prevalence of this symptom along with a list of the most common sources of what can only appears to be an emotional issue. If you or someone you know gets depressed, be sure to get these physical conditions checked out!

Who gets depressed?

Depression is common, affecting about 121 million people worldwide. In the United States, it's estimated that in any given year depressive disorders are estimated to affect approximately 18.8 million American adults, or about 9.5% of the U.S. population age 18 and older.

In terms of gender, depression affects both sexes. Unfortunately, depression has had a reputation of being a women's condition, but this is incorrect. Actually more than 6 million men in the U.S. have depression each year. The symptoms of depression in men are similar to the symptoms of depression in women. But men tend to express those symptoms differently.

How do men and women express depression differently?

In women, depression may be more likely to cause feelings of sadness and worthlessness. Depression in men, on the other hand, may be more likely to cause them to be irritable, aggressive, or hostile.

Either way, the depressed person is suffering, and those around them suffer as well. Therefore, adopting an immediate, problem-solving attitude is essential. Everyone - the depressed person, family, friends, co-workers - benefits by this 'let's get this resolved' approach. Be sure to check out every one of these physically-generated causes of depression:

1. Low thyroid (T1 or T4):

Revealed by a blood test or muscle testing, this symptom can often turn around by increasing dietary intake or even supplementing with iodine along with removing all sources of exposure to fluoride, including fluoridated drinking water, toothpaste and dental sealants. Fluoride knocks iodine out of the thyroid, causing low thyroid functioning and thus leads directly to depression.

2. Low adrenals.

In the go-go modern world where people are stretched to capacity and beyond, adrenal glands get overworked constantly. Like anything else, they can only take so much, and then they start to give out. The result is low energy, low motivation and, guess what - depression!

Various stress-reduction and stress-management techniques in combination with direct support of adrenal glands with herbs often reverse this. Two of the herbs adrenal glands 'like' the most are Ashwaganda and Licorice. (However, don't take Licorice long term if you have high blood pressure.)

3. Sex hormone imbalances.

Whether in men or women, sex hormones that are out of balance are major contributors to symptoms of depression. Therefore it's always worth it to get the levels of estrogen, progesterone and testosterone (for both men and women) checked. If any are too high

or too low, they can cause depression.

4. Food intolerances.

Time and time again, I've seen this as a top physical cause of depression in my clients. And the biggest food intolerance of them all is wheat, followed only by lactose and then gluten. In fact, various experts estimate that 30-50% of people are gluten intolerant, while the incidence of lactose intolerance varies by race from about 5% of the population in far Northern Europeans to 95% in native African ones.

The solution is to omit these from the diet and allow the body to detox what remains - a process that takes some time. Various authors have noted that the symptoms of manic depression (bipolar disorder) and the symptoms of gluten intolerance are exactly the same, making this a crucial factor to check when depression symptoms occur.

5. Toxic metals.

Modern people are exposed to toxic metals from the dental substances in their mouths, from drinking water, food, air and more. A toxic metal body burden can produce very deep-seated and profound depression - absolute hopelessness and despair.

This is also true during a metals detoxification process, which is why it's always essential to undertake even the diagnosis of toxic metals under the guidance of a skilled and experienced

professional. The good news is that the depression flushes right out with the metals.

6. Toxic chemicals.

These are everywhere now in the modern world. Estimates say that each individual is exposed to some 100,000 with more added daily.

A quiet study was conducted in which surgeons were asked to remove a small piece of fat from each patient while conducting the operation. These were then sent in to a central laboratory and tested for chemicals. The fat sample with the lowest number listed well over 200 toxic chemicals! For some reason the results of this study never made the headlines.

Many of these cause depression by mimicking sex hormones, where they get into the cell receptors the body's own sex hormones should be regulating.

Just as with toxic chemicals, the services of a competent and skilled practitioner are required to detox these chemicals safely and effectively, and again, any depressive symptoms they cause disappear right along with the chemicals.

7. Infectious agents.

A great variety of infectious agents exist in the world, Among the most common forms are bacteria, viruses, yeast, molds, worms, parasites and spirochetes.

We all know what it feels like to be under the effect of these in acute situations like getting the flu for example - a depressing enough circumstance. But we can also be affected by chronic,

low-grade infections our bodies continue to fight without our ever realizing it. These wear us down, use up our resources, make us chronically tired, vulnerable to other bugs besides the ones we've been fighting.

The ways to discover their presence can be as varied as the bugs themselves, ranging from blood tests to stool samples to muscle tests. For anyone with chronic depression symptoms, thinking "chronic low-grade infection (or infections)" can be a productive route to address.

8. Anemia.

This is a condition of low red blood cells. No matter what the reason, the body cells, including the brain, don't get enough oxygen when there are too few red blood cells (RBC's) This can produce depression.

Anemia can result from loss of blood, from lack of iron in the diet, from lack of absorption of iron, from stomach ulcers, medications, colon cancer, trauma or B vitamin deficiency (see #9).

9. B vitamin deficiency.

There are many B vitamins we need for proper brain and nervous system functioning. Some of the more prominent ones in this regard include vitamin B1, B2, B3, B4, B5, B6 and especially B 12 and folate. Since we don't manufacture them, we require daily dietary intake to maintain healthy levels and stay out of depression.

And we also need to diminish or entirely avoid substances that strip our bodies of these essential nutrients, including refined sugars, alcohol, caffeine and nicotine.

In many instances, what has appeared to be intractable depression is completely turned around by adequate intake of natural sources of vitamin B such as those in nutritional yeast, for example.

But don't take synthetic B vitamins - these damage the peripheral nerve plates - those tiny little nerves at the far edges of our bodies that feed back information about what's going on there to our brains so they can make adjustments.

10.Low blood sugar.

This condition causes depression in a manner similar to that of anemia, only in this instance the problem is not getting enough oxygen to the brain, but getting enough blood sugar to the brain. Physical problems such as diabetes, syndrome X (also called metabolic syndrome) can produce this symptom if not properly managed. Many people report their depression entirely resolved by supplementing with Inositol - another B vitamin.

11. Poor blood circulation.

Blockages, weaknesses or cramping in arteries negatively affect blood circulation and can result in depression for the same reason anemia does - not enough oxygen to the brain.

Where blockages exist, they can often be cleared by taking a proteolytic enzyme such as bromelain (from pineapples) on an empty stomach.

Blood vessel weaknesses are often strengthened by bioflavonoids. A rich food source of some kinds is found in the white membrane inside citrus peels, while the blue and purple range of fruits - blueberries, raspberries, grapes, bilberries - provides others.

12. Prescription drugs.

Last, these are becoming a greater and greater contributor to the incidence of depression, even as more and more drugs are created to treat depression.

Therefore a careful review of any and all prescription drugs is called for when anyone suffers from depression.

And that review should include not just the drug, but all ingredients the product contains, including fillers and excipients. Two of the most common ones found in modern drugs - especially generic ones - are wheat and lactose... and these are two of the major contributors to food intolerance-generated depression.

It's always worth it to ask your pharmacist if any of the prescriptions you've filled can cause depression. For an online list of such drugs, search under 'medications that cause depression.'

Of course, there's every reason to combine the positive effects of eliminating these dirty dozen physical depression-makers with the benefits of counseling or therapy.

As many of my colleagues emphasize, in this modern world, everybody deserves therapy!

Wednesday, January 22, 2014

What Is Bipolar Disorder? A Definition Based on Recent Scientific Discovery


The discovery of the existence of the anti-conscience puts an end to a big mystery, giving a clear explanation for the abrupt mood swings that characterize the behavior of individuals who suffer from manic depression or bipolar disorder. The anti-conscience is a true demon because it is the result of the disorganized formation of the first live conscience in its first stages. Unfortunately, it occupies the biggest part of the human brain.

Whenever you are controlled by your anti-conscience you act like a violent, immoral, cruel, and absurd animal. The anti-conscience is crazy and this is why it has self-destructive tendencies. It tries to destroy the human side of your conscience and control your behavior.

The anti-conscience is a part of your personality. However, it is not conscious, and this is why you have no control over it. This is your animal side, which remains in a primitive condition because it refuses learning and changing its behavior.

You can have a clear vision of what is happening in your brain and psyche through dream analysis. The unconscious mind that produces your dreams works like a natural doctor, who protects you from your evil and absurd anti-conscience. All dream images work like psychotherapy.

If you suffer from bipolar disorder you must be very careful and write down all your dreams everyday. Then, you must translate their meaning according to the scientific method of dream interpretation discovered by Carl Jung and simplified by me, who continued his research. You will understand the hidden unconscious messages and find sound mental health forever.

Jung gave us a scientific explanation for the meaning of dreams and their healing power. Without his work we would never be able to understand the complex dream language. I had to translate numerous dreams for two decades in order to simplify all the complication I found when I precisely followed Carl Jung's steps.

Only I could continue his research and discover the evil anti-conscience because the continuation of his research was too dangerous. I could bear it because I was too strong and I had to fight schizophrenia, which is the worst existent mental illness. I was almost as schizophrenic as my father. I had to discover the anti-conscience in order to resist its attacks and preserve my sanity.

I saw that our wild conscience is too powerful. It is our animal personality, which is still alive inside us. The anti-conscience is our other self, our animal and evil self, which is totally selfish, absurd, cruel, indifferent, and superficial. The anti-conscience is everyone's second personality, but it can also be multiplied into numerous different personalities.

Some people are more influenced or controlled by their anti-conscience, and this is why they suffer from bipolar disorder or from another mental disorder.

We usually enter into contact with our wild conscience when we have traumatic experiences because we are depressed and angry. Our primitive conscience has the chance to speak in our conscious mind and impose its absurd ideas whenever we are revolted for some reason.

Cases of multiple personality disorder can be clearly explained now that we know that we have inherited an absurd wild conscience, which is very powerful and tries to destroy our human conscience. The anti-conscience creates different personalities, dividing the parts that compose an individual's personality.

Our wild conscience provokes numerous behavioral abnormalities when it invades the human side of our conscience because it tries to destroy our capacity to think logically. Bipolar disorder is the domination of an individual's conscience by the anti-conscience for a certain period of time, which varies depending on the severity of each case.

The unconscious treatment through dream messages is based on eliminating your anti-conscience through consciousness. This means that you will analyze the content of your mind and your behavior. You will understand when you are controlled by your anti-conscience and what you have to do in order to transform your dangerous wild conscience into a positive component of your personality.

This is how you'll stop having abrupt mood swings and completely control your behavior.

I can translate your dreams for you and provide you with psychotherapy in case you have no courage to study the dream language. However, I have simplified Carl Jung's method of dream interpretation so much that you will surely understand the meaning of dreams by studying my lessons. You can submit a few dreams for translation and then continue translating your dreams alone, when you'll get used with the dream language and the dream logic.

You'll see that whenever you are too euphoric or extremely depressed, you are controlled by your anti-conscience. It takes the place of your ego, pretending to be you.

The unconscious mind gives you a clear image of what is happening to you in the dream messages, teaching you how to control your behavior and stop being a slave of your anti-conscience. This is how you will find salvation, instead of being an eternal victim of your wild side.

You'll build a self-confident, balanced and uniform personality. Your unique personality will be characterized by sincerity and wisdom. Your harmonic, always calm, and sensitive behavior will help you find permanent peace and happiness.

Major Depression & Disability - The Problem, The Solution


I am a 53-year old man who has been declared officially disabled for almost a decade now. I never really cared much for labels, but if our society deems it important for governmental reasons to put one on me, then, indeed, that's me.

I had worked for about two decades in a myriad of jobs such as sales, marketing, public relations, media production and the like. It was difficult for me to keep a job as I had depression, at least that is what I was "labeled" to have. I had been treated with antidepressants and talk therapy for many years but was not getting better. Finally, I was told I could not work, that "I was too depressed".

Now I had a lot of time on my hands so I began studying depression. It did not take me long to discover a disease called "TRD" or labeled by the psychiatric community, "treatment resistant depression". I was one of the few lucky ones who received the only treatment for it, a vagus nerve implant. You see, TRD is actually not a mental illness, in and of itself, but a faulty vagus nerve, of which I had, will mimic the signs of depression, lethargy, etc. After I received the treatment, my life took dramatic changes.

Though I am still labeled "disabled" by many, I have found that the Internet has leveled the playing field. I say that a bit facetiously and with a bit of sarcasm, because, during my "depressed state", I was keenly aware of the discrimination targeted my way, though those who were being discriminating were not aware of my awareness. I guess they thought people with depression or any disability don't have awareness or intelligence. We do.

So I thought it was the end of the world when my work days in corporate America came to an end.

How would I ever survive on disability? I did. One learns to adjust. But there are some painful growth moments in that adjustment. But it was all worth it.

With extra time on my hands, I learned to "nearly master" the Internet. I started a cartoon project with no money, Londons Times Cartoons which in less than a decade became the most visited offbeat cartoon site on the Internet (and still is). It's rankings keep growing and by the end of this month we will have had 9 million visitors within the past two years. That may not sound like much but for a cartoon site it is. Most cartoons on the Internet last from 3-6 months and the others are gone within a year.

I opened two cartoon gift mega-stores and six niche funny gift shops. Sales remain brisk. I have affiliates through my manufacturer 3drose, many of them on Amazon and they sell plenty as well.

I create all sorts of products with my cartoons on them; greeting cards, t-shirts, jogging suits, mouse pads, coffee mugs, beer steins, wall and desk clock, baseball caps, and, you name it, we make it.

All this is due to research on the Internet and making phone calls. Oddly enough, a disabled person, and that person is me, can write a lucid, professional email, talk on the phone professionally, create a social network and blog professionally, and write articles, hopefully professionally. The old boy network, who was once so involved in keeping a stigma attached to depression and/or disability is out of the picture now. I have no excuses anymore not to succeed. I deal with people who want me to succeed, and it helps them succeed.

When I create a new cartoon product, I generally create at least ten new jobs from artistry, to manufacturing, to drop-shipping, to heat press digital reproduction, to courier, etc. And I do it all
from my home.

Oh, and this disabled person (that is, me) finished three years of business college online, at an accredited university at age 52. I am 53 now and plan to return next year to finish and go for an MBA.

Again, on the Internet. Why waste time with people who are more concerned with "labeling" me so as to put parameters on my limitations, than those who know me just as a person and helping me succeed.

I am not saying a depressed or disabled person should hide behind his or her computer all day, I spend plenty of time interacting with people, handing out business cards, going on talk shows, and doing as much as I can in the public.

Labeling is a bad thing. Have you ever noticed that a person with a mental illness or physical disability is the only person labeled by his illness or disease? If a person has cancer, we don't say "He's cancerous", or if a person has diabetes, I've yet to hear, "There goes Mr. High Blood Sugar!". But if a person has depression, 100% of the time "He/she's depressed" or "has depression" or "mental illness". That usually puts an end to the conversation as the stigma remains and many don't want to know much more. That is ashamed.

It might do them good to go to some of the famous people with depression websites such as
[http://www.geocities.com/coverbridge2k/artsci/famous_people_depression.html] , or http://www.angelfire.com/mn2/illstandbyyou/famous.html . I am always surprised to see my name on each of the pages. There are hundreds of them; simply Google "famous people with depression". My name sits right there usually next to Abraham Lincoln or Elton John.

So you see, depression is considered a disability. But when you read the names on these websites and see who is or was depressed, it truly makes you wonder, first, why there is such a negative connotation attached to the label, and secondly, why the label even exists.